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Friday, June 22, 2012

AMAZING!

That was the word of the day on Weds.! I took Renee to our children's hospital to be evaluated by the international adoption clinic. I can't believe how far she has come in just 3 months with us. Without being asked Renee showed them she could hold a pen and scribble, follow their directions(I really think she understands everything we say to her), showed them how she knows her colors, helped me put her clothes back on, put her shoes on herself and showed off the many words she knows. The doctor would just look at me and shake her head like she couldn't believe what she was seeing. She told me I was in trouble and I should start saving for college, maybe Harvard. If she is that smart I think we should focus on scholarships! :) The biggest thing we talked about was her eyes (their may be a slight chance of a lazy eye and ptosis in one eyelid) and food issues. She had extreme hiccups when we first got her. They would happen many times a day. They would sound like she was choking and sometimes would sound like burps. She is better now, but the doctor thought we might have been dealing with acid reflux. Her poop at the beginning was not solid at all. I realized that when her poop started getting better the hiccups got less also. She is not gaining weight either. I have been concerned that we were dealing with more than just her getting use to a new diet as far as the loose bowl moverments and wanted to leave a stool sample for them to test, but of course she didn't poop all day until we stopped just a mile down the road from the hospital because she had to go to the bathroom. Yup, you guessed it! She pooped!! I had taken her 3 times while we were at the hospital. I considered going back to hospital with it, but traffic was horrible, it had been a long day(Renee took no naps and it was almost 5pm and we had a 3 hour drive to get home) and the person I was traveling with would not have been amused. So now I have to get it done at our hospital. We also talked about how to get her to get all the nutrition she needed. She still loves her meat and it takes bribing to get her to eat fruits and veggies. I read books and prepared for many issues when we brought our daughter home. I remember thinking right before we left for China, what if she has issues with what she will eat? I brushed the thought aside and focused on other issues. That was one issue that I didn't put much thought into. :) The adoption issues I had put a lot of time and energy being prepared for, she had no issues with. :) The very last thing we did was blood work. I didn't know how she would do. When we were in China and she had her TB test, she didn't flinch and she watched it being done and never cried. I questioned if she was still in shock from all the changes and if she would act differently now that she has adjusted to the changes. Nope! She watched the whole thing and didn't flinch. At the very end when the needle clicked as they took it out of her arm, she cried. What a strong, amazing girl I have. Maybe she will be a doctor. :) She seemed facinated by what was happening. I feel so very blessed. This girl is going to keep us on our toes!! Each day she is becoming less of a stranger and I am falling in love with her more and more each day. My niece took this picture. She sales Mary Kay and gave her some lip gloss to put on during a car ride to the hospital. She did pretty good. She loves to be pretty.

4 comments:

  1. Yay for Mary Kay! lol So interesting to hear about her evaluation! So glad things are going well. Kim alos had huge stomach issues for the first few months. Constant diarrhea )= That is never fun. Was Renee dewormed? I assume she was but just thought I'd ask to be sure. Perhaps Renee is just like Kim with weight gain-very high metabolism?? Hope she poops for you so you can get some answers one way or another (=

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  2. Oh Lisa, thank you for the update. I know you've had so much on your plate -- especially the last three weeks. One of my prayers was answered with a loud, "Yes!" in some of the things you wrote. We've got to talk soon! I'm at work today, getting ready for next week's lessons. I just looked on Goshen's website for teaching jobs, but there are none posted. Let's make a plan to get together soon, okay? Love you!

    Annette

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  3. Sad we missed you! Glad that the check up sounds to be overall positive! -John

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  4. Hi Lisa! So glad to hear how great Renee is doing!! Our adoption clinic pediatrician recommended Culturelle for kids for Sara, and I gave it to her daily for quite a few months. We also gave her Carnation Instant Breakfast for a while to help with the weight gain. Sara is still a peanut, but they say she's perfectly healthy - so we don't need to worry so much about weight (thankfully!).

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